We’ve been trading books since high school. Back then, we’d exchange juicy Danielle Steel novels like Secrets, Changes and The Promise. Even back in the day, we loved a happy ending. And if there were some steamy sex scenes on the way to that happy ending? Even better!
But even now that we’ve traded in our shoulder pads and skorts for underwire bras and Spanks, we still love to swap a good read. Well, most of the time, anyway…
Let’s just say sometimes one of us is in the mood for a darker and intense memoir (*cough* Lisa) and the other would rather just stay in her happy place (*cough* Liz). Or someone (Liz!) might BONE OUT over the entire Twilight series and the other (Lisa!) might, well, still be stuck back on New Moon. (Note to Twilight fans: before you unleash your inner vampire, she hasn’t given up on Edward and Bella just yet!)
We think book choices boil down to how you’re feeling when you’re ready to pop open that novel. So, whether you’re PMS-ing, feeling fat and depressed; or you’re perfectly caffeinated, having a great hair day and happy as a freakin’ clam (without the help of a little xany!), there’s always a book that fits your mood.
So, in honor of National Give a Girlfriend a Book Day, here are the books we’d give our moody girlfriends.
THE “STUCK IN A RUT ” FRIEND
Candy Girl by Diablo Cody
This memoir about Diablo Cody’s year as a stripper will inspire any Bored Betty out there to try something new and exciting. It probably won’t send your girlfriend out to get naked for money (although Diablo’s “adventures” sure made for a freakin’ good story) but maybe she’ll at least finally give skydiving a try?
Diablo Cody’s writing is smart and funny; her way of describing a scene so you feel you’re right there in the strip club is incredible; and her ability to tell the story without judging an industry that the majority considers to be seedy and lowbrow is, well, cool. So if you need to ignite a little spark in your life, read this book! And follow her on Twitter, she’s hilarious! @diablocody
THE “BURNING THE CANDLE AT BOTH ENDS” FRIEND
The Manny by Holly Peterson
If you want to turn your brain off, forget about your problems and escape into the fun lives of women looking for love and happiness, we say Chick Lit is the way to go, yo! And if we had to pick just one (and not the one we wrote :) ) we’d give The Manny to any friend stressed out of her mind.
It’s a breezy read about an overworked NYC mom who decided to hire herself a Manny to help her out with the daily demands of trying to be the perfect mom, wife and corporate climber all at the same time. Oh, and did we mention that her Manny is one yummy piece of eye candy? Uh-oh.
Overworked and underappreciated wife + Hot Manny= BIG TROUBLE!
No wonder Liz’s husband said N-O when she begged him for a Manny of her own after reading this. He knows better!
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THE “EMOTIONAL ROLLERCOASTER” FRIEND
The Divorce Party by Laura Dave
If you’re up, down and all over the place, we say any book by Laura Dave will bring you back to center. So to our emotional friend, we’d recommend her latest, The Divorce Party. This is a dual-narrative told by two women who both ride an emotional rollercoaster as one of them faces her upcoming wedding and the other faces her upcoming divorce. But like any strong women, they navigate their way through it. It’s a great story (who knew about these divorce parties that go on?!) that will remind you that no matter how crazy and overwhelmed you feel, you can always come out on top. www.lauradave.com
THE “ROBOT AKA EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE” FRIEND
Firefly Lane by Kristin Hannah
Wrap this one up for your favorite robot and watch the tears flow! Seriously, Liz hasn’t cried that much since her daughter spilled grape juice all over her brand-new white Juicy Couture sundress!
It’s a wonderfully engaging story about lifelong friendship. (Gee, I wonder why we related to it so much?) Firefly Lane follows two women from adolescence to adulthood and touches on what it truly means to be a friend. It will make you laugh, it will make you cry.(Liz!) And it will make you call your mom and best friend the minute you’re done reading to tell them how much they mean to you.
THE “PITY PARTY” FRIEND
Happens Every Day By Isabel Gillies
Even though this memoir is about the sad and unexpected end of Isabel Gillies’ first marriage, it’s a beautifully written example of how even when things seem completely hopeless; when the rug is pulled out from under you; you do have the power to pull yourself up by your bootstraps and freakin’ get through it! (If she can survive serving her husband and his mistress a dinner over candle light, you can find your inner muscle man too!)
Isabel Gillies brilliantly writes the story of getting through a devastating time in her life with the help of her friends and family; all while doing everything she can to protect her two small children. If we had a friend who was feeling down about her life, we’d give her this book. Because, it reminds you that, in the end, everything will work out–if you believe that it will.
So buy your friend a book today! While you’re at it, we’ll shamelessly suggest you throw this one in your cart www.amazon.com ;) It’s a good call for the “Need to freakin’ LOL” friend.
Liz & Lisa